Introduction
I like beautiful women. Beautiful girl, always from the beginning caught my eye, with them, I would feel funny brilliant life.
Judge by appearances is tacky, I do not, even though I do not like the ugly girl, but I respect their psyche, because I know that, as a girl, if you're not beautiful, it means you pay more efforts than others to be happy, I respect them.
hh but only respect.
Jiao those good shape, attractive figure, beautiful eyes, discharge girl, I put her as one of the meaning of my life. I want to be clear that they have a unique best man later, I think I should make a beautiful girls in my side, that I should have.
or that are good men should have.
targeting first chapter (target identification) < br> in college, and too many dead party should focus on how to deal with girls. then we locked in the target range of br> when I is based on: Super surrounded by beauty and attention because it received too much, too much competition, and the target tend to be more elusive psychological, so the bad start. concern and not a lot of moderate difficulty, but also challenging, success will not regret after a one hunting dinosaurs. Therefore, in college, my goals are generally such > means a lot of people because of who I am not going superfluous Syria. Almost all the universities that were removed had brothers, have had several of the , coupled with sincere emotion, to be in college, has a pure emotion.
after graduating from university, due to good luck and their own efforts, I have a good job. not low income (7k/month , for a newly graduated students, very good), and often travel, experience a variety of girls, there were many stories.
lot of people feel that money, looking on the line chanting xj . I do not think so. I do not like the gray sexual depravity and sluggish, like the pursuit of girls. because I think because of who is a need for adequate mental capacity, ahead of the predictability, adaptability, and a small amount of artistic talent . to conquer a girl from a psychological and sometimes get a sense of achievement will be more than physical conquest.
the beginning, I still rule in accordance with my standard beauty, the pursuit of some relatively ordinary girl. but found that, in the present age (I was in 1978), career success of men, are often very popular with girls welcome. my superiority of the girls attacked. In fact, I've always been very mentally prepared, I'm ready to consecutive failed 10 times. After all, beauty is not so good deal.
Then, after about a year to try. I have met 3 beautiful girls. occurred in three really good story. I am very sincere to pursue them, pending the outcome of two for various reasons, it still kind of broke up (I do not have a relationship, and any one of them, we can be assured of it). Finally a girl, and I together. We got married last week.
I love my wife, she was very beautiful, very gentle, but totally not the kind of modesty beautiful girl and arrogant. so I finally together with her.
the past few days I have been thinking, pretty girl really is a very unusual group. They have a common and characteristic of the beautiful girls is very interesting and thorough things.
I have tried three very beautiful girl. and understand a lot about the weaknesses and habits of pretty girls mind. so I tried to sum up some things, like the senior students to get their own books Like selling out. I'm married, do not go against beauty. And then I hope there are some brothers to share some of my experiences, I hope good for you.
not say so much nonsense.
First, list your own conditions, if the defect is too large, of course not. You'd better have the following conditions:
1, sensitive sense of smell, able to appreciate the other's feeling fine.
2, rich imagination and the objective simulation capability. I often need to imagine themselves as some of the other's feelings, on your next great significance.
3, 不至于 ugly appearance.
4, clever.
5, certain economic basis. (the wealthy beauty bubble flow, and not within the scope of our discussion)
then start our steps.
1, find the target. beauty is precious, not just to find. So in this respect, strike up a conversation or on the road While in the classroom is a way to pass a note, but, according to acquaintances or friends of the introductions, or to contact a subtle way to introduce students even more is a good goal to find a way.
why the emphasis on looking for goals find a way? because, as beautiful, she has experienced in the classroom, passing notes to her, approached the boys on the road too much. follow the old way is easy for you obliterate all natural. difficult to obtain results. not to mention the beauty of modesty innate characteristics of the strange men for a sense of exclusion approached.
So, I suggest a friend or a tacky old-fashioned way to understand the relationship between students, so that when you first occupied in a good position. without too close to the target mind effortlessly. it is not, inextricably linked to find something out.
initial attack articles of Chapter II (initial assault)
This is a delicate stage. the other is beautiful, always receive the pursuit and love. so crazy if you start attacking, then you become one of many suitors, no features will not be taken seriously.
If you do the opposite, in beauty in front of cool, reserved, and high-profile installation. as a woman, are hoping to be favored by the opposite sex, especially girls, feel that the goodwill of man she deserves, if you pretended not to like her, she will feel ; so strange how this man? desire to conquer, few will want to conquer the men have no interest of their own to prove himself.)
Therefore, I suggest, a beginning must be low-key and humble attitude. on her show some goodwill, but not excessive like.
can give her a call or a small amount of text messages, a little concerned about it. but never too much. If you let her know that you decided to follow her, you are very passive. You just need to let her know that you are her some degree of interest.
to ask her to reveal
initial posture is so important, attitude once fixed, you can not easily in the future changes in the exchanges.
beauty, destined to have many suitors, so the start, you must avoid beautiful women relegated to Tell her that she is you've seen the most special girl, she has a unique temperament (such as decided to chase you and gifts. That is the next phase of the heavy weapons.
rapidly approaching third chapter (rapid approach)
later met a beautiful girl, is likely to have two general mentality,
1, is dead attracted death, began with their own favor and fierce in her pursuit, reckless disregard for the environment. euphemistically called intimidated and restrained, not the tall guy sighed born, Lieyan master, not sweet, not million, consistent properties. ordinary one, then continue to their lives.
fact, this is the attitude of the two extremes, are not suitable for The. The former investment onslaught too, unless you are a super guy, or is likely to make objectives of deterrent, first surprised, then exclusion. because women like men do, because of the extremely fascinated by each other's appearance, women more obsessed with a technology called words, women can not love you in a short time, even if she has enough good impression on you. Therefore, the onslaught is not the recommended way.
another escape and give up is worse, you do not chase others, negative treatment goals, the likelihood of success is close to zero.
Therefore, we should try to control your own pace and mentality, so defense balance. reflected in the specific behavior, we should always, but not often The beautiful goal to send text messages, phone calls, let her know who you are, let her know that you appreciate and even like her, but you have not decided to chase her.
initial attack this time around to maintain the posture 25-40 days, once the 25 days after the attack to begin considering the next step.
let's analyze the target.
beauty, of course not be there waiting for you to chase. beauty's side a large number of followers, which have all kinds of people, handsome, frog, metamorphosis, of course, there will certainly be a strong competitor. but this is not bad, worst of all - she has a boyfriend the.
beautiful if not the boyfriend, so good, you can skip the following strategies to deal with. continue to You spend more time to deal with him. The reason is simple, just like you want to trouble other people's vegetables in the fridge out, and then you go into the same vegetables.
boyfriend if she already has. also divided into two cases,
1, her boyfriend very well, the two gluey. this time, you need to do too much work. you need to gather information on competitors, you need to know what his boyfriend has what The weaknesses and strengths, is how to deal with his beautiful girlfriend. to find points of attack. Of course, success is still very far away. Love In The City met this couple, we wish them to it. As to how to break up people, I do not practice, so I said no way more detail.
beautiful, but I have rarely encountered a very strong boyfriend to his girlfriend locked. Most of the girls want to be stupid animal in nature, bohemian guy, big
share of payment or the dignitaries there. In this way, we certainly take advantage of. So to go to the following point - if her boyfriend and she is not a strong case.
2, the relationship between her and her boyfriend and is not strong, this is our time to show tactics. anthomaniac type boyfriend, mostly dedicated type, the beauty of their own obedience fallen in love with his girlfriend, but ignored the man in love the role of the dominant emotion. plus Most of eccentric beauty, so often her boyfriend as a Band-Aid or the nurse, although useful, are difficult to meet their spiritual needs, that is, difficult to produce the hearts of the love of her boyfriend. this time, you will need to appear in the image of a strong her life.
you need to make her feel that you are interested in her, you do not care about her boyfriend (her boyfriend is too less), you have a strong self-confidence that you can be with her. In this stage, it is likely she would have rejected you, because she is a boyfriend, most girls have rp considered good when it comes to her boyfriend having an affair with other men tend to be bad. You must not aggressive or retreat this time is a test of patience and style of the time. you have to make her feel that you do not like you and not the same as his boyfriend, and you appreciate her, but in no hurry to have her watching you, waiting, in life. < br> I have always stressed, is in love, man must be an advantage, we must conquer the woman. opposed to the pursuit of their own, or the tragic fate of the hard or easy to get hurt to win the sympathy of a woman. Of course, that means there are success stories, However, I do not think begging and relying on feelings of sympathy received a love, it is a deformity of love, not solid, not normal, do not advocate.
continue our Through initial contact, know each other's general strength and understanding of the characteristics of the target, and also initially found the breakthrough that we can attack, such as beauty's boyfriend is bored, or are helping them, or do not care about her, if this rp beauty is not good enough, we can also find She may be helping them, is keen to stimulate and vanity, it is shallow and superficial. These are our weaknesses to attack.
Then, in the awareness of the beauty 25-40 days later, We started to do some deep probing the.
pave the way through the above, you should be able to and your target a certain degree of communication. I mean, you can always send messages to her online chat or talk about some sensitive , involving depths of the soul, focusing on emotional topic. This communication is extremely important, because you not only can understand her needs and ideas, you can also be directly expose your ideas in front of her.
or that style, you must special. in front of her or her communication, you have to be assertive, firm, slightly aggressive, calm, rational, this is only a part of, and you need to easily and more humor, slightly outrageous and does not violate the principle of the bad.
man's like a paradoxical combination. bad and good combination.
For my own part, when I was in college, it is like to play the game, skip class, go out disco dancing, playing very crazy behavior is frivolous, but I often read books on philosophy and psychology (even a school computer communication, 5555), even up to now, I have been watching In addition, the flavor of this book and with the rogue atmosphere of hybridity, is a very attractive taste of beauty.
you need to do is to dialogue and conversation with her being, which inadvertently revealed their own kinds of contradictions in character. does not matter what you can pretend to look like anything bearish, but about the truth, you should show their piety.
and her talking about, you need to achieve such results, so she thinks you are so different, you have deep thoughts and their own minds, but you being a devout and serious with a lot of frivolous and humorous elements. This man is very attractive.
man must have ideas, no thoughts of men, in fact, and no students reproductive organs of men as pathetic.
, of course, beautiful women who probably do not understand you so much, she is likely to bother to read your . And if you need from the heart to conquer her, you have to try to get her on your interest, so that she would be interested to know you. I recommend that you can be very talkative, very humorous and provocative, she let her think you are an interesting people to know about your interest generated.
Once women understand that the men are not just superficial, as seen on the surface when the woman's favor will increase exponentially.
Well, if you do well, this beauty has begun to try to understand you. Our next step is to make her feel good to you.
women are very vain creatures. while they are eager to understand and care. Therefore, any time, do not miss the opportunity to compliment her, of course, grasp the scale and sense of proportion and do not become sick touted. once met a girl who looks like Michelle Reis, and everyone looks like Michelle Reis compliment her, she's compliments are common. But she and I together, I said, Vivian really depressed, the beauty say why, I said, she saw Michelle Reis, ranked second only to recognize their own, to see you, only to find her first not on the second row also. (although this argument smacks of nausea, but more nimble than others a compliment) she immediately Xiaofan, but I smiled a very pious to say that I did not lie ah. She once said, you Oh, good fun.
So, by cleverly compliment, not difficult to achieve the purpose of increasing goodwill.
, of course, there are more important .-- to read your goal effort, trying to find some of her discussed the characteristics that others do not. my first girlfriend, a beautiful, beautiful eyes, a lot of people say know, I was a very evil look at her, and then said calmly, Oh no I said so! hh true? really good Why?
Therefore, efforts to understand beauty, that beauty is not so prominent characteristics of the body, so beautiful you can often have a ; type of favor.
Well, through the loquacious, witty and humorous text messages, chat-depth soul, subtle flattery and praise slightly provocative, sustained moderate reveal a good impression on your target, you have completed the from hold only when the girl is willing to declare. If girls in general, if you have obvious advantages, easy to attract her, wait until you could see that she has been captivated and then you tell the truth, is indeed a very high success rate.
However, you face is not an ordinary girl, but a beautiful and moving many suitors with a beautiful girl, if you still need to rely on the sidelines to wait for the opportunity to ambiguous words,
1, before you, it is likely there will be other people declare success, you never can not wait the right time.
2, to create beauty, As everyone knows, is a man of another sexy decisive character.
3, missed the best time. Women are often curious about new services, know a man in 25-40 days time, if you are interested in her, This is the best time to change a relationship. It is neither the beginning, when both sides know nothing about, nor know too much after a few months, with ambiguous ambiguous between the two is very delicate time, when not tell the truth, what are you waiting?
So, in exchange for 40 days or so, you have a more in-depth understanding and ambiguous communication, you know she does not hate you, even a little bit of appreciation. So, you find an opportunity straightforward to tell her that I love you, I need you to be my girlfriend. (confession when there are artistic at all, will not go into)
I do not think that confession is always a difficult thing. as a man, a girl, I like you, in fact, very proud of is a very natural thing.
, of course, you're waiting for her results. the result will be 3.
1, Well, I promise you, but hh. This is the best answer, at least she has accepted you, willing to contact you. Of course, this introduction is not the biggest
2, the hh I do not know / I do not know if it is like you / we know more about, please? the answer is also a great possibility. Objectively speaking, this is a very optimistic about the answer, at least his next course of action given your tacit approval. is a good omen .
3, No, we do not fit / I already have a boyfriend / I do not like you /. by the possibility that the answer will be very large, because she is beautiful, if you can not do a perfect job in the previous steps In this time you will encounter difficulties.
how to solve these difficulties? This is somewhat like playing three games, you should capitulate over the enemy general, you must continue to bribery and provocation. Here, in her promise you, you must continue to increase in extent of her affection for you.
the very least, you have to let her do not hate you. (If you get to see you to avoid her, then you can only change a goal, again from the beginning to start the first step.) You must have a legitimate reason or slightly ambiguous and her alone. For example, you panic, said today is a special day, so you have to ask her to eat or drink water. (At that time you can say, today is the first 53 days to know you, you are very happy and honored.)
, of course, such an invitation must pay attention to the other's attitude. I have a very annoying catch me dead in mm (at that time I face wood cassock, language slow, timid and cowardly, and not handsome, I really fail tm), she clearly impatient with me, I stubbornly pursue, then there are times I find her that we know today is a full 2 months, then sent a gift to her. she did not receive, but also to leave saying I am ashamed of this piece.)
well, assuming you have the occasional success out of her about a separate meeting. This is the crucial step, because she has to give you the battlefield, so you have the opportunity to display their your a variety of tactics and heavy equipment. you know, beauty does not give each person an equal opportunity to pursue Oh.
Title IV Fire Support articles (firepower reinforce)
good if you're lucky enough to find the preferences of your beauty habits and weaknesses, and you can just in front of her to show you the most special aspects of the most glamorous, let her feel that you and all the other suitors are different, she began a good impression of your performance and ambiguous , but it is not obvious that, or with some hesitation and subtle hints and your ambiguous.
---- then we began to enter the third stage: fire support.
from the reality point of view , a large part of the man and his pursuit of beauty does not maintain such a long time between the clear state. She did not belong to you, do not belong to anyone, she refused to confession to you, but get little gifts for your phone or soft spot, and occasionally thought of give you a call or SMS, but more often is will not let you get.
many men would complain about, why not just resolutely refused me? why not start and said, the girl is not willing to messy people. according to my assessment, the pursuit of beauty are those of certain ambiguous, and from the following reasons:
1, few are driven by vanity beauty to walk among men for fun. (This is not a normal love, do not do detailed analysis.)
2, hesitation and lack of women decision-specific power performance. She does not want to play with who, but she really did not know whether you like this man, and she does not know how tactful turn himself in this man; she did not know this man is not really worth paying her.
woman not a man, will try to solve problems, they Most of the time only hesitation and wait. (because the beauty of such indecision led to the pursuit of mental disorders in the majority of instances.)
3, the balance of power competitors. but you, there are other people are so beautiful my heart already, she liked, but do not know how to choose. (This fact can be attributed to the above hesitant)
4, due to their own particular experience (mainly the failure of love in the past), leading to love and injuries, and even the fear of man. (This is a very much, I have witnessed many cases)
Well, then we can see clearly.
If a beautiful girl and you are willing to close, but there are always let you make a breakthrough. If she is not trying to play with you, that she was hesitant. hesitation that you should not love, the love who hesitate. or that she afraid to fall in love with you.
issues laid out, then the solution? Let us correspondence analysis.
1, playing a man .-- directly away. are interested in her brother in the experiment psychological and physical, anyway, people feel happy.
2, waiting to see a man .-- She has a good impression, but do not know she was not the like you. Well, you have to do is, in accordance with the existing style of your and sustained increase in her favor, such as she likes romance, you can use the style of gift or surprise surprise appointment to let her see that you have the emotion factor is what a man, she likes the sun cool, you will need to In appearance and further improve the language, she likes mature, then you have to increase efforts to taste the man himself.
I very abstract, which made it very easy, but it is not easy to do. Let a beauty in love with you has been very easy, think of a good impression with these rising to become love, very difficult. never even think about humor alone, or alone can conquer a handsome beauty.
beauty is not necessarily high IQ, but most are the amazing beauty of emotional intelligence. (those who worship the gift of the pursuit of many) the character of their strong and special. unless you can accurately grasp the weakness of her, otherwise, almost did not let you alone with that point the hard-won goodwill and Yijizhiming opportunities.
how to do that? she likes you, but also allow you to ambiguous, but no further opportunities. this time, I think, probably carried the heavy weapons to a man come up .--- show your sincerity.
If, in the first phase close to the beauty of the time, relying on the lure, the second phase of beauty, when clamped, rely on good faith.
tell the truth to getting a man a stage of psychological fatigue is the biggest stage of investment. you need to pay a lot for your beauty, you may find that you really deeply in love with her, you can not convince myself not to think of her Would you like rain for her, willing her dorm waiting for a night under the hard, willing to go beyond the 7 Station Road, to buy her her favorite place to eat strawberry ice cream.
this stage I am very worried. Why must be a man tortured his own hysteria and female talent that he loves her? no way fact. Moreover, the beauty has always been dominant group, they are also the group most in need of a sense of security.
on the psychological implications They will constantly remind ourselves that most of the men just coveted his face, (which I admit, I like beauty, is only because they are beautiful. only so far, no other high-sounding reasons. Of course, as love,UGG boots clearance, That is another story.) So they lack a sense of security because of the need to set many obstacles as possible to test a man to prove his loyalty and determination.
then, no other way, we have to do my best to prove himself , move others.
method is still a lot of text messages and love letters are routine, but supplemented by some practical examples: taking care of her sick, this approach probably is not commonly used; note she uttered a careless remark or a a joke wish firmly in mind the psychological, and specifically for her to do, kill high level. careful observations of her (now you should be able to find more of), to see what potential opportunities point. < br> regardless of whether the old-fashioned way, no matter how troublesome, as long as they let her move, as long as effective, is a good way. (in the rain waiting to be very old fashioned hard routine it, sounds bad, but, you really experience , I felt completely different, I believe that beauty, too.) mop once remember reading an very pious, at this stage, you have to do is to make you look pious. you careless, Taitailielie, forgetful of the bad habits must not reflect on her. Even the birthday of a girl forget the man is unlikely to recover to the beauty.
word, like beauty-intentioned man. Who would not want each other to their heart's true the highest point on it? you have to do is to make her feel that you love her, even the most care about her. You can give up everything for her. (how ironic language.)
this time, anyway, full battle has begun over the heavy weapons can be. This section was known as Fire Support, is stated to be already has a dubious basis, increase investment, strengthen the reinforcements, better favorability, through continuous flowers, dating, gifts, letters, sweet, and all the details to move her to achieve the effect of suppressing the other. In it, the only center is firm to let her know your loyalty.
most beautiful women, or that most women are need a man to help her make a decision. If she is really in love with you, as long as You make her trust you, you baby just a matter of time. There are many stories of regret, not only because strong men, not pious, not dead set on making. the story the best, the heroine often faint regret Road hh really, as long as he once more that love me, say it once more, I promised him a hh skills. is timely ceasefire, intermittent attacks .--- like a person, the pursuit of too tight, too wrapped around death, some degree of damage not only the dignity of their own, resulting in decreased their lethality, but also lead to target resistance and resentment. mp5 crazy fire, often less than ak and m4 of the burst, and this is the truth about it?
If you are a beauty, a man dying in front of you every day to live Say I Love You , say never, say give up,Bailey UGG boots, do you think? (example, I once early in the morning to 8 kilometers away from the place I like waiting for her under the girl's dorm, and then only to her say is suddenly want to see you. species like the light, but strong and deep feeling. and I like his subtle and firm like the girl out of their own.
Above we talked about the fire of hesitation-type girls repressive attacks. We know Should this kind of reception did not know each other, or do not know who the girl to accept ...
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