Chen Lin, heaven is not perfect

 Author / autumn heart
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The entertainment industry in China these days is overwhelming news of singer committed suicide Chen Lin, in many avoid crying for more than the sound of , most of discussion is on her death, one of the most widespread speculation that she was committing suicide because of love, the most direct reason is that she has chosen to Chen Yongge birthday at ex-husband to end his life.
Chen Lin, 39-year-old Chinese singer from Sichuan, who by virtue of fixed in my mind frame is to recalls a Bleak. she is so persistent and let go in between the constant battle with himself, and finally himself a corner.
in the eyes of the world, regardless of how much the star, has their own honor and glory, than ordinary people live a more exciting, then, live a more comfortable life than the ordinary Chen Lin, why will choose their own hands a broken life? the real reason, not an outsider could reach, in my view, Chen Lin death, nothing more than the following reasons:
one character Destiny. sensitive to low self-esteem and self-esteem too often, and has a good strong is different from the ordinary people. No self-confidence, people will look in the accident too easily through the excessive self-esteem to help cover up their mind, Chen Lin This is a sensitive person, after a failed first marriage is a serious lack of inner security. And, as a public figure, her privacy and frustration tend to be exposed no dodge in the eyes of the world, little sign of trouble will make her mind, eager to prove themselves, such as through remarriage to hide my feelings are not frustrated, and now through the studio founded by her husband to represent the business does not decline, it is regrettable, too good strong perfectionist, and sometimes but will more difficult to do so: married life is not happiness, and her husband contradictions; studio closed in a short time to end it. For women, marriage is her first love, life, business is the second life, and then is the other, no doubt, the past few years much of her negative experiences, which for a sensitive and vulnerable people, is fatal. Even more frightening is that a good strong, will be closed to her self, do not easily open the hearts of the people world, negative emotions can not get a timely release, long-term accumulation of damage the health of sad.
Second, feeling frustrated, desolate and lonely heart. from Chen Lin's words and deeds and the state it is clear that, from beginning to end, she loved her Chen Yongge her ex-husband, divorce was helpless choice, new husband is her partner's double, to find someone to the company of trying to find someone to love, and to show the world love the way she has the ability to start over, but despite their love can not be forced , happiness is self-deception, calm compared to her former husband's life, she felt frustrated, which made her despair. because the self-enclosed, and tell her lack of recourse has been hovering in the frustrated emotion, she Shenxinpilei excessive repression, insufficient. just like a rubber band at the end of a long pull, like, and then point force will be snapped, this is a long period of helplessness of people, a negative event will be the temptation to point onto the road to ruin. < br> Third, the lack of spiritual power. No one's life, the road is smooth, who are stumbling to find their own direction, harvest the fruits of life, but for a more peaceful state of mind of people, people are more willing to give their escape route , willing to face the vulnerability on their own, are willing to help themselves in various ways, give yourself time and opportunity, which is the power of self-love. Chen Lin's life, only two extremes: success and failure. She anything but ordinary, unwilling to accept the vulnerability on their own, as she said the same as a chain, can only go non-stop, until one day, only to discover down, but not so mm fell, too late. cause of frustration, self-doubt is not terrible, self-confidence to rebuild, people can start over at all; feeling frustrated not to be feared, people's happiness should not rely on others, positive self-love women, love will always find a comfortable, even if no love, they would be in love is not in fact own all the horrible mm, as long as you have a tough self-love of the heart, the world will be very broad, this world will always be part of your piece of the sky. do not have a tough Chen Lin heart, her heart is like glass, a blow that is broken; Furthermore, the lack of the power of self-love, so, frustrated, and life is a foregone conclusion, and one gray.
Chen Lin, heaven is not perfect, the world is more not all do so, the heart is far from the well-being such as glass, glass heart I hope you learn to really love throwing myself in heaven all the way.