Because the type of love you can not know love

 Is the so-called Love it arises because the life of the beloved, have some merit or quality.
because you're rich. I love you because you give me a sense of security. I love you because you are so different, so is love, so famous, so hh, for example, some girls fall in love with someone because he is a super athlete. She could not imagine that they will accept the second-best. as long as the top, that is, she wants to, as to how the other side, it does not matter. because she did not love the person itself, but he status, his reputation.
people often say to me say: I think What are the qualities and benefits. and what is not? probably nothing wrong. We all want to be loved because they have nothing special. Clearly this than the ; must pay the price to win a cost of some energy and effort. However, because of the advantages of our favored by others, to make us feel more comfortable, because we know they have a lovely attraction.
, however, loved in this way will soon become more than Because of your generous salary, or have money to buy things or get to experience the love you one day if you are unemployed, incapacity, or for various reasons, can not make you have earned so much money, what happens it? Or, have a richer, more earning power of men into your life, the result then? competition will make YOU stand it? a threat to your love? If so, then you love , performance before the public; the other side of the heart is the deep self, only a few people know that no one knows even the self. According to me those Both sides are afraid to let each other know their true inner self. They fear that if the truth exposed, and that they will not be accepted, not loved, or even completely abandoned.
whether you are in life for fear of incurring minor unpleasant or reject, but can not share it with your partner? If so, then you experience the ultimate love is difficult, because the deep, intimate sexual relationship, you need to trust and to pay one hundred percent. If you love with a trace of anxiety, of fear, it will be shown in bed, between the first, because the real expression to an extreme sex, to put their own fully dedicated to each other without reservation. This frank and open is to make sex to achieve harmony, joy, extremely realm of reason, but if not fully accepted, it is so deeply hurt their cause. Therefore, very big risk.